Self-growth
Business & Career
Success
Communication
Healing
Relationships
Psychology
HappinessYou’ll learn
- Why the journey is more important than the final result
- How to not stop mid-way when achieving goals
- Specific steps to attain your dream
- The mindset of an accomplished and happy person
Table of contents
first KEY POINT
Success is not a talent; it’s a skill
How often do we decide to start something new 一 a business, regular gym sessions, or a healthy relationship with our families 一 and fail miserably after the first try? The answer is “too embarrassing to say.” However, we shouldn't be ashamed of trying because many choose not to do even that. On the other hand, our skills and dedication rarely match our high expectations at the beginning. But instead of examining our own behavior, we tend to attribute our lack of success to external factors such as our job, lack of time, or others who have succeeded in our desired field.Luckily for big dreamers, the trick is moving slowly. Ironically, society has gotten used to the “fast and furious” mode over the past few decades. Capitalism exploits our productivity, so we've learned to value the final result instead of the process. We don't see mistakes and rejections before the last successful attempt, which distorts how we perceive organic growth.
A little drop of patience is more potent than a waterfall of impulse.
Tommy Baker noticed this tendency, too. He used to struggle with motivation and achieving his ambitious goals. Some questions didn't leave his mind: “How can someone be constantly driven while others shoot themselves in the foot?” or “Are there universal habits or rituals for success?” Needless to say, it took Baker years of self-discovery to find answers. Now he is a thriving businessman, author, podcast creator, and coach, ready to share his knowledge and mindset with people. His main rule of success is to take things slowly. And we must remember 一 Brad Pitt used to wait tables before becoming a TV heartthrob. We all start somewhere, so why not support each other instead of joining the rat race?
second KEY POINT
The devil is in the details
All too often, we indulge ourselves in fantasies of success, despite knowing it never happens overnight. Who can blame us when the media continuously feeds us with the perfect celebrity images while hiding years of hard work, refusals, and tears? Although not every Hollywood ace makes it to the top from ground zero, we still compare ourselves to them instead of working toward our goals.The thing is, real life is rarely cotton candy. Chasing an illusion is way easier than facing failure. After all, falling hurts when our expectations are over the clouds. Too cool for school, we don't achieve our goals because of the following:• High expectations and surrendering after facing difficulties.
• Waiting for the right time when we have more money, time, and energy.A grave mistake is ignoring obstacles. Life is never an upheaval; instead, it's a rollercoaster where each slope is off the horizon until we plummet. Detours are another thing we overlook. For example, YouTube first appeared as an online dating service, but its success came after people started sharing their own content. If YouTube's developers had stuck to the initial plan, they most likely would've failed.Finding the perfect time for change is another fairytale we like to tell ourselves. After all, being a beginner and making mistakes is something to be ashamed of in our society, meaning we don’t see stories of gradual improvement as often. Instead, we’re encouraged to become successful just for the sake of it. But a 2011 study on motivation showed that people improve most when working with awareness, even if they do less work eventually. To clarify, work is valuable only when we do it mindfully. The rest is simply completing tasks without visible progress.
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first KEY POINT
The recipe for success
second KEY POINT
Keeping your passion burning
third KEY POINT
“Embrace the suck”
fourth KEY POINT
Becoming successful in 90 days
fifth KEY POINT
When dream meets reality
sixth KEY POINT
Road trips take longer with refuels
seventh KEY POINT
Conclusion
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Frequently asked questions
What is The 1% Rule: How to Fall in Love with the Process and Achieve Your Wildest Dreams about?
The 1% Rule is a motivational guide by Tommy Baker that emphasizes the power of incremental improvement and consistency. It encourages readers to focus on daily habits that lead to significant growth over time, allowing them to embrace the journey toward their dreams.
What are the key takeaways from The 1% Rule: How to Fall in Love with the Process and Achieve Your Wildest Dreams?
Key takeaways include the importance of small, actionable steps, cultivating a growth mindset, and the significance of enjoying the process rather than solely chasing results. The philosophy stresses that embracing daily progress is crucial to achieving long-term goals.
Is The 1% Rule: How to Fall in Love with the Process and Achieve Your Wildest Dreams worth reading?
Yes, The 1% Rule is worth reading for anyone looking to transform their approach to personal and professional growth. The insights provided by Tommy Baker can inspire motivation and persistence in achieving your goals.
How many pages is The 1% Rule: How to Fall in Love with the Process and Achieve Your Wildest Dreams and when was it published?
The 1% Rule has approximately 240 pages and was published in 2018. This makes it a relatively manageable read for those seeking actionable advice on personal development.
Who is the author of The 1% Rule: How to Fall in Love with the Process and Achieve Your Wildest Dreams?
The author of The 1% Rule is Tommy Baker, a speaker and writer known for his expertise in personal development and entrepreneurship. His work focuses on helping individuals harness their potential through effective habit-building.