Self-growth
Business & Career
Success
Communication
Healing
Relationships
Psychology
HappinessYou’ll learn
- Transforming chaos to clarity with stillness
- JFK's secret to crisis management
- Harnessing present moments for peak focus
- Napoleon's strategy for mental clarity
- Socratic wisdom for personal growth
Table of contents
first KEY POINT
Stillness and hard work must go together if you want to be successful
Stillness is an important trait that you must master if you want to be successful in the modern world. There are far too many things in our world today to distract you from your goals and ambitions. And, that's beside the regular crises that invade our personal and professional lives from time to time.
You have all the answers to the problems in your life, it's all buried within you. You only need to be still to find it.
John F. Kennedy did not always possess the quality of stillness. As a matter of fact, when he was a young man, the former American president was a troublemaker. He grew up in a family where “you don't get mad, you get even.” And he held onto that mantra for the most part of his life. He came into politics with absolutely no executive leadership experience, all his awesome leadership skills were learned in service. And, as you would guess, he failed several times.But that same man was able to avoid a major nuclear war between America and the Soviets. The now popular “Cuban Missile War” would have escalated into something big that would claim the lives of over 70 million people had Kennedy not learned how to be still and let his mind guide his decisions.Imagine trying to dismantle a grenade set for detonation in your family house. You have no prior experience or knowledge, and the lives of the people you love are at stake. You try, hoping you get it right, or you will all die. How fast will your mind race?That's similar to Kennedy's situation, but he pulled it off. The nuclear war didn't happen, because he managed to strike an agreement with the USSR.How did he do it? Several media reports of interviews with the people around him at the time, as well as information obtained from his personal journal, show that Kennedy had practiced the following aspects of mental stillness: patience, alternating confidence and humility, foresight and presence, empathy and unbending conviction, restraint and toughness, and quiet solitude combined with wise counsel. These are the qualities you will be learning in the chapters below. Let's dive in.
second KEY POINT
Living in the present will make you a more focused and intentional person
Life — no matter how hard or beautiful, or sad or interesting — is a gift. But oftentimes, we fail to appreciate or acknowledge the gift of living, and instead, focus our minds on how we could fix the past or what design we could give to the future. And in so doing, we fail to live in the now, the present reality. Every one of us is a victim of this. How many times have you climbed the podium to give a talk and, rather than focus on what you came to do, you find yourself wondering what your audience thinks about your dress or hairstyle. Can the ones in the front row smell your perfume? Do they think it smells nice? Oh that color on the dude sitting right over there reminds you of the first time you met your boyfriend. Eventually, you find yourself underperforming because you were too distracted.How many times have you been in a phone conversation with someone, but find yourself toying with your keys, or something nearby? We all do that. But living in the moment with full awareness and concentration is the key to excellent living. You will begin to notice little things about people and your environment you ordinarily wouldn't. You'll become more productive, because all your energy will be channeled to what you do per time.
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first KEY POINT
Putting away unimportant information will make you a better thinker
second KEY POINT
You can learn to manage your emotions by leveraging on the art of personal journaling
third KEY POINT
Learn from the wisdom of people who have gone ahead of you
fourth KEY POINT
Your character is as important to your success as hard work
fifth KEY POINT
Paying attention to your body will make you more productive
sixth KEY POINT
Conclusion
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Frequently asked questions
What is Stillness Is the Key about?
Stillness Is the Key, written by Ryan Holiday, emphasizes the importance of inner calm and clarity in achieving success and fulfillment. The book integrates insights from philosophy, spirituality, and psychology to guide readers on cultivating stillness in their daily lives.
What are the key takeaways from Stillness Is the Key?
Key takeaways from Stillness Is the Key include the necessity of reflection, the power of mindfulness, and the benefits of slowing down in a fast-paced world. Ryan Holiday advocates for stepping back from distractions to achieve better focus and alignment with one’s true purpose.
Is Stillness Is the Key worth reading?
Yes, Stillness Is the Key is considered worth reading, especially for those seeking personal growth and peace in chaotic times. The book provides practical techniques and philosophical insights that can help enhance mental clarity and achieve a more balanced life.
How many pages is Stillness Is the Key and when was it published?
Stillness Is the Key consists of 272 pages and was published on October 1, 2019. This length makes it a concise yet impactful read for those interested in philosophy and self-improvement.
How can I apply the principles from Stillness Is the Key in my daily life?
You can apply the principles from Stillness Is the Key by incorporating mindfulness practices, such as meditation or daily reflection, into your routine. Ryan Holiday's strategies encourage setting aside time for stillness, which can enhance overall well-being and productivity.