Self-growth
Business & Career
Success
Communication
Healing
Relationships
Psychology
HappinessYou’ll learn
- Why penetration isn’t everything
- The cunnilingus attitude
- Why wet doesn’t necessarily mean turned on
- Female anatomy and sexuality
- Foreplay, coreplay, and moreplay
Table of contents
first KEY POINT
Understanding your partner’s body is the key to pleasing them
Many men find it difficult to understand why a woman can’t “come” just as quickly as they can. After all, the male orgasm is far easier to understand and achieve than a woman’s. It all comes down to understanding the female anatomy and realizing that patience and time are just as important as what you consider to be the final course. Enjoying the journey is just as much fun!“She Comes First” debunks the myths you might have heard about the female sexual response and teaches you that at the end of the day, the best way to take a woman to the brink of sexual climax is to use what is in your mouth — your tongue!
Women orgasm far more reliably through oral sex than penetrative sex.
The key to a long-lasting and enjoyable relationship is sexual equality. That means giving the woman in your life just as many orgasms as you have. If the female orgasm has always been somewhat of a mystery to you, learning to use your tongue is the single best way to turn it all around.
second KEY POINT
The mystery of female sexuality
It’s a fair assessment that most men don’t understand female sexuality well, although few are brave enough to admit it. If you ask most women, they will tell you that although they may enjoy the sex life they have with their partner, they probably don’t manage to orgasm regularly.
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first KEY POINT
The inevitable male climax
second KEY POINT
Clitoris 101
third KEY POINT
Your most potent sexual tool is in your mouth
fourth KEY POINT
History has created a twisted image of female sexuality
fifth KEY POINT
The female anatomy explained
sixth KEY POINT
Why “wet” doesn’t mean anything
seventh KEY POINT
Conquering hygiene concerns
eighth KEY POINT
Have the ideal cunnilingus attitude
ninth KEY POINT
Conclusion
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Frequently asked questions
What is 'She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman' about?
'She Comes First' by Ian Kerner is a groundbreaking guide aimed at helping men improve their sexual experiences with women by focusing on female pleasure. The book emphasizes the importance of understanding a woman's needs and preferences, making it essential reading for those looking to enhance intimacy.
What are the key takeaways from 'She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman'?
Key takeaways from 'She Comes First' include the significance of prioritizing female pleasure, techniques for effective communication, and methods for enhancing sexual satisfaction. The book provides insights into physical and emotional aspects of intimacy that can deepen relationships.
Is 'She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman' worth reading?
Yes, 'She Comes First' is highly regarded for its insightful approach to sexual relationships and its emphasis on mutual satisfaction. Many readers find it valuable for fostering a deeper understanding of their partners and improving their overall love lives.
How many pages is 'She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman' and when was it published?
'She Comes First' consists of approximately 240 pages and was first published in 2004. This book has continued to resonate with readers, making it a lasting resource in the genre of sexual intimacy.
What makes 'She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman' unique?
What sets 'She Comes First' apart is its dedicated focus on the female perspective in sexual pleasure, which is often overlooked. Ian Kerner’s expert advice combines practical tips with a compassionate approach, making it a must-read for anyone looking to enhance their intimate relationships.