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- How empathy shapes discipline
- Why boundaries bring security
- The power of calm in a meltdown
- Secrets to parental confidence
- Gentle leadership's balance
Table of contents
first KEY POINT
Toddlerhood is the best time to hone your parenting skills and cultivate the right behavior in your kids
Toddlerhood is an essential phase for creating values and discipline in a child; this period involves a lot for both kids and parents. It's a time when parents must enforce the right attitude and reprimand bad behaviors immediately and constantly. Most toddlers always like to see and know their limits, so they keep trying to test and ascertain these boundaries. Some parents are mostly overwhelmed during this phase of child growth, which can also be said about the kids.
Positive parenting involves discipline and raising kids to become responsible individuals who treat others well.
The act of your kids acting out is nothing to be ashamed of as a parent, and it also doesn't mean your parenting style is wrong. Loving your child will mostly include saying no because lack of discipline is not kindness; it is neglect. Discipline can also be a roller coaster experience for the parents, but the gentle reminder that as a parent, you are human and that your child needs your help is also something to have in mind.This summary seeks to educate parents that no kid is bad. Even when your child acts out, kicks, throws things, or speaks rudely, they are not wicked or naughty. All these occurrences are due to other factors explained in this tidbit.
second KEY POINT
Every parent should aim to show respect for their children while also disciplining them
When bringing up a child, enforcing limits is quite important. Most children will have several chances to test the boundaries you’ve put in place. For instance, your kids might want to get clarity on allowed behaviors and actions as a way of asking for help or even attention. Children also feel a good sense of safety when parents set and maintain boundaries. As parents, ensuring we understand this and have the self-control to speak to toddlers like we would talk to adults helps in most situations.Acknowledging your children’s thoughts and feelings lets them know that they are being heard and you are still maintaining your own ground as a parent. Parents often think talking with their children using gibberish or baby talk will be an easier way to communicate since even the child doesn't speak correctly. However, speaking to them normally enforces a certain level of respect between the child and the parent and enforces the feeling of being heard in the child.
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first KEY POINT
Confidence and parenting are two peas in one pod
second KEY POINT
How to remain calm during a child's meltdown
third KEY POINT
Children are constant observers and active participants in their environment
fourth KEY POINT
A better approach to discipline that leaves an indelible impact on your kids
fifth KEY POINT
Gentle leadership: a firm approach that every parent should try
sixth KEY POINT
Conclusion
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Frequently asked questions
What is No Bad Kids: Toddler Discipline Without Shame about?
No Bad Kids: Toddler Discipline Without Shame, authored by Janet Lansbury, focuses on gentle discipline techniques that promote mutual respect between parents and toddlers. The book emphasizes understanding children's behavior without resorting to shame or punitive measures, fostering a more positive parenting experience.
What are the key takeaways from No Bad Kids: Toddler Discipline Without Shame?
Key takeaways from No Bad Kids include the importance of parenting with empathy, setting appropriate boundaries, and using non-punitive approaches to discipline. Lansbury encourages parents to recognize their toddlers' emotional needs and to engage in constructive communication.
Is No Bad Kids: Toddler Discipline Without Shame worth reading?
Absolutely! No Bad Kids provides insightful strategies for parents seeking effective ways to discipline their toddlers while maintaining a loving relationship. Many readers find it invaluable for its practical advice and supportive approach.
How many pages is No Bad Kids: Toddler Discipline Without Shame and when was it published?
No Bad Kids: Toddler Discipline Without Shame spans 100 pages and was published in 2014. This concise format makes it an approachable read for busy parents.
Who is the author of No Bad Kids: Toddler Discipline Without Shame?
The author of No Bad Kids: Toddler Discipline Without Shame is Janet Lansbury, a renowned parenting expert and speaker. Her insights are rooted in respectful parenting practices, making her advice widely respected.