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Happinessfirst KEY POINT
Love & action: your new life fundamentals
Not knowing what you want from life can be increasingly frustrating. Fear, guilt, uncertainty, and diminishing aspirations comprise a high price when you realize that you have only one life. Spoiler alert: the truth is, you know what life you want, but for some reason, you haven’t gotten the chance to manifest that life.Believe it or not, most people struggle with the same challenge, which affects their lives with different degrees of severity. Thus, we all got our ticket to life; however, we didn’t know what airport or railway station we should head to. Quite often, we are internally lost and do not have a solution to our concerns and fears in the blink of an eye.But guess what, there is a bright side. First, you’re not alone — most people have no idea what they want in life or the formula for happiness. Second, and most important — the time of your frustration regarding this matter is almost over. So, consider this summary your compass; yet, it will point in different directions for everyone. Its universal purpose is to teach you to feel what you truly desire and know what to do with it.
You don’t want to shout out how amazing your life appears because you haven’t figured out your life goals and sources of happiness and satisfaction.
You may be anxious to know these not-really-secret ingredients of a good life. The answer is love and action. To be genuinely happy, you must determine what you love and sail towards that lighthouse. And don’t forget to avoid relying on your skillset too much when selecting your life’s direction. You have a higher chance of losing sight of what you love to do when you focus only on your capabilities.This summary will unlock your bravery and ability to listen to yourself. You’ll learn to hear what’s going on in the world of your wishes. Barbara Sher and Barbara Smith want you to live a life full of happiness, fulfilled dreams, self-realization, and love. This tidbit will teach you to understand the mechanics of your life and how you can set them up to live it to the hilt.
second KEY POINT
Embracing the challenges: one thousand and one expectations
If you find yourself at the crossroads of your can-s, want-s, and love-s, there is news for you: most likely, you are dealing with an inner conflict impeding you from living the best life you deserve. Simply put, you are fighting with the darkness of the unknown. But once you discover what you love and want and what stops you from being at peace with your goals, you’ll be ready to implement your aspirations into reality. It sounds too simple, but it is what it is. However, quite often, we are limited by some imposed configurations.While you might think that you — and only you — guide the helm of your ship, there are always other people who give suggestions about how your life should be. Thus, come to terms with your always cheerful grandpa, supportive friends, best parents in the world, and even your partner possessing some expectations for the course of your life. Seeing you as the head of a family business or the one who’s furthering a dynasty can be an ultimately clear perspective for them. But what about you?Some people will directly state their expectations, and others will remain silent, but you’ll still feel their pressure. To manage their expectations, practice conversations with yourself. Ask yourself what you really want, whether you live according to your life plan or someone else’s, and what to do if you find yourself in the middle of existential nowhere.
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first KEY POINT
There’s no luck without action
second KEY POINT
Too much caution, too much resistance
third KEY POINT
Interfering with success: beware of the trap
fourth KEY POINT
Too many choices, too little time, and other catastrophes
fifth KEY POINT
Accept change & listen to your heart
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What is 'I Could Do Anything If I Only Knew What it Was: How to Discover What You Really Want and How to Get It' about?
'I Could Do Anything If I Only Knew What it Was' by Barbara Sher explores methods to uncover and pursue your true passions. It guides readers through practical exercises and personal insights to help clarify goals and ignite motivation toward achieving them.
What are the key takeaways from 'I Could Do Anything If I Only Knew What it Was: How to Discover What You Really Want and How to Get It'?
Key takeaways from the book include the importance of self-discovery, the role of community support, and actionable strategies for realizing your dreams. Barbara Sher emphasizes that identifying what you truly want is crucial for creating a fulfilling life.
Is 'I Could Do Anything If I Only Knew What it Was: How to Discover What You Really Want and How to Get It' worth reading?
Yes, this book is worth reading for anyone feeling lost or unfulfilled in their life. Its relatable approach and practical advice make it a valuable resource for those seeking inspiration and direction.
How many pages is 'I Could Do Anything If I Only Knew What it Was: How to Discover What You Really Want and How to Get It' and when was it published?
The book 'I Could Do Anything If I Only Knew What it Was' spans 288 pages and was originally published in 2004. This length allows for in-depth exploration of its themes and practical guidance.
Who is the author of 'I Could Do Anything If I Only Knew What it Was: How to Discover What You Really Want and How to Get It'?
The author of 'I Could Do Anything If I Only Knew What it Was' is Barbara Sher, a renowned career and personal development expert. Her extensive experience in coaching and workshops contributes to the book's effective insights.