Self-growth
Business & Career
Success
Communication
Healing
Relationships
Psychology
HappinessYou’ll learn
- The foundation of a stable adult life
- The keys to independence
- How trust works both ways
- Ways to deal with failure
Table of contents
first KEY POINT
Parenting is an awesome occupation
It's amazing how the best things in life often get overlooked. Parenting is one of those things. Bringing children into this world and preparing them for adulthood is no small task; society should heavily reward every parent. But parenting is much like teaching — no reward can compensate for the value you're offering, and the impact of your work can only be measured in eternity.Another thing that makes parenting unique is that there is no school for it, and every parent has a unique style of raising kids. Undoubtedly, some styles are highly effective, others work just fine, and others shouldn't even exist.So, where do people learn to parent, anyway?For the most part, we learn from our parents or primary caregivers. And that's an important lesson for all parents: your children subconsciously learn from you. They note how you react to issues, how you deal with people, and the words you use often.
Everything you say and do — including your hidden motives — stays in your child's subconscious memory.
The parenting style you inherited from your parents might be insufficient for our time, so it makes sense to learn better ways to raise your kids. Nearly every parent desires to raise successful children and protect them from the harsh experiences they had themselves.You will learn time-tested parenting principles that have worked for centuries. Some parents discovered them by accident or trial and error; others learned from mentorship. Get ready for a dramatic change in your parenting style that will bring joy both to you and your kids!
second KEY POINT
Children are complete human beings
Let that sink deep. Your children are not less human because they are young; they come into the world as whole beings, and your only job is to guide them through their developmental stages. That means they have unique passions and desires that may not agree with you. It also means they have a mind of their own, and even as toddlers, they largely know what is good for them. This understanding is vital because it will keep you from being the kind of parent that trains their kids to become exactly like them. Such an attitude will create a healthy balance in your relationship, encouraging respect from both sides.
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first KEY POINT
Trust is the foundation for a stable adult life
second KEY POINT
Trust works both ways in parenting
third KEY POINT
For kids, independence equals grit and competence
fourth KEY POINT
It's okay if your child fails to catch up early
fifth KEY POINT
Conclusion
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What is 'How to Raise Successful People: Simple Lessons for Radical Results' about?
'How to Raise Successful People: Simple Lessons for Radical Results' by Esther Wojcicki emphasizes the importance of fostering independence and resilience in children through trust, respect, independence, collaboration, and kindness. The book shares practical lessons and insights on nurturing success, drawing from Wojcicki's own experiences in education and parenting.
What are the key takeaways from 'How to Raise Successful People: Simple Lessons for Radical Results'?
Key takeaways from 'How to Raise Successful People' include the idea that empowering children through trust and responsibility can lead to their lifelong success. The author stresses the significance of communication and collaboration in parenting and education, providing strategies to cultivate these traits in young people.
Is 'How to Raise Successful People: Simple Lessons for Radical Results' worth reading?
Yes, 'How to Raise Successful People' is worth reading for parents and educators seeking practical guidance on raising well-rounded individuals. Esther Wojcicki’s proven methods and authentic experiences make this book a valuable resource for anyone interested in fostering success in children.
How many pages is 'How to Raise Successful People: Simple Lessons for Radical Results' and when was it published?
'How to Raise Successful People: Simple Lessons for Radical Results' is 224 pages long and was published on February 27, 2019. This concise format makes it an accessible read for those looking to implement its insights quickly.
Who is the author of 'How to Raise Successful People: Simple Lessons for Radical Results'?
The author of 'How to Raise Successful People' is Esther Wojcicki, a renowned educator and journalist. With decades of experience in teaching and mentoring, her expertise lends credibility to the principles outlined in the book.