summary ofBest SelfBook by Mike Bayer

first KEY POINT

The pathway to self-discovery hinges on self-value, and detachment from background influences self-growth

The journey to discovering who you are can be demanding, but it is worth the try. We come in contact with different personalities in our lifetime on Earth, and these relationships impact either positively or negatively. However, it is essential to remember that regardless of our parents, friends, acquaintances, and siblings, we must define who we are by ourselves regardless of the prints left in our lives.

Although it is worthy to note that we are, to a varying degree, influenced by our environment, our society, and the family we come from, but in a bid to attain our destined potential, we must claw at the benefits of genuine self-inquiry.Parents can pass genes to factor strikingly similar features in their offspring, but this does not make kids a carbon copy or reflect their parents.

We cannot structure our birthplace or the kind of family we are born into; our background may even be a form of restraint depending on the circumstances we find ourselves. Mike Bayer helps us conceive a perception about vindicating ourselves and making our own choices; we are responsible for orchestrating our destinies.To reach your goal of self-discovery, you must be dedicated and disciplined. Start by making a list of what you intend to strip out of your life versus what you want to be taught into your existence. Surrounding this restructuring is taking note of whom and what you let into your life.

Even though you may want some things about your life to change, you need to picture the bright side of things and cherish the irreplaceable good things in your life. It is crucial to be grateful for the people you have around you because showing gratitude to those around you bears positive energy that translates into your reality.In this piece, discover how you can become the best of yourself by following the insights therein to the end.