summary ofAll About LoveBook by bell hooks

first KEY POINT

Is a life without love wasted?

The way society sees love has changed over the years. In the 60s and 70s, people believed love was all-powerful and all we could ever need. Now, however, it’s something we’re afraid of. We almost feel cynical about it. Whether this is through past experiences causing us to become bitter toward love, or a general societal shift, a change has undoubtedly occurred. bell hooks explored modern society’s view of love to make sense of this sudden shift in perspective and attitude and exposed why this all-powerful force seems to have lost some of its strength.bell hooks realized from a very young age that she felt loved. She can distinctly remember feelings of warmth from her family. Through that, she understood that life isn’t worth it for someone who doesn’t know affection. Her belief grew even stronger when the love in her life suddenly turned sour.For a reason she still doesn’t understand, she was subjected to emotional abuse as her childhood progressed. The slow but definite lack of love made her realize that a person can’t feel precious or unique without it.

However, it’s essential for anyone who has been in this situation to realize that the past has gone. There is nothing you can do to change it. You can take steps to create the future, but you need to let go of the grief you hold. You must open your heart to love once more. Loving can be scary sometimes, but it’s worth it.