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13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do

summary of13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t DoBook by Amy Morin

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You’ll learn

  • The core factors of mental strength
  • How to deal with your failures and other’s success
  • The unbreakable habits defeater
  • Exercises to train your mental muscle
  • How to face life challenges

first KEY POINT

Being mentally stable doesn’t mean being cold and tough

None of us are mentally strong or weak one hundred percent of the time. Instead, we all have some mental strength, and there is always room for improvement. You can develop mental power, which includes coping with complex feelings, sorting through your thoughts, and maintaining positive behavior under challenging circumstances. It's easier to feel mentally strong when everything is going according to plan. But mental strength tends to disappear when problems arise.

Bad habits stop you from achieving more efficient results. Don’t let them affect your potential.

Some people can eat fast food and stay fit, but life is more complicated for others. They have to spend hours in a gym to be in good shape. Likewise, with mental strength — some people are generally stronger. Three major factors come into play:• Genes: predisposition to mental health disorders may already be in your DNA.
• Personality: several traits smooth negative emotions and help you to react positively.
• Experience: each event in your life affects your world outlook.However, that doesn’t mean others can’t have such strength; they just have to develop and maintain it. Mental strength makes you resistant to stress, improves your contentment with life, and enhances your performance in whatever goal you choose.The following tips will help you find more efficient solutions to face life’s challenges as bravely as possible. How? Step by step, you will become a better version of yourself by reducing harmful habits that negatively affect your mental state.

second KEY POINT

Feeling sorry for yourself is nothing short of a waste of time

Our life journeys are tumultuous and unpredictable; tragic and irreversible events might happen occasionally, but that is no excuse to give up.

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first KEY POINT

Preserve your inner strength and let go of the things you cannot control

second KEY POINT

Change is a welcome turn in your life

third KEY POINT

Don’t be afraid of taking calculated risks

fourth KEY POINT

Learn from your mistakes and don’t resent other people’s success

fifth KEY POINT

Never give up after the first failure, and don’t fear alone time

sixth KEY POINT

Mentally strong people don’t feel the world owes them anything

seventh KEY POINT

Conclusion

About the author

Amy Morin is a licensed clinical social worker, psychology instructor, and psychotherapist. She also created the online course Mental Strength: Mastering the 3 Core Factors.

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Frequently asked questions

What is '13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do: Take Back Your Power, Embrace Change, Face Your Fears, and Train Your Brain for Happiness and Success' about?

This book, authored by Amy Morin, explores key behaviors that mentally strong individuals avoid to enhance their emotional resilience and success. It emphasizes taking control of thoughts and actions to foster a life filled with positivity and accomplishment.

What are the key takeaways from '13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do'?

Key takeaways include avoiding victim mentality, resisting unhealthy comparisons, and not wasting energy on things beyond your control. These insights help cultivate a strong mindset essential for personal and professional growth.

Is '13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do' worth reading?

Yes, this book is absolutely worth reading as it provides practical strategies to develop mental toughness and resilience. Amy Morin's insights are actionable and relevant to anyone looking to improve their mental well-being.

How many pages is '13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do' and when was it published?

The book has 304 pages and was published on November 3, 2014. This length allows for a comprehensive exploration of its themes without overwhelming readers.

Who is the author of '13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do'?

The author of '13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do' is Amy Morin, a licensed clinical social worker and a well-known speaker. Her expertise in psychology provides valuable insights into building mental strength.