Self-growth
Business & Career
Success
Communication
Healing
Relationships
Psychology
HappinessYou’ll learn
- What makes character key
- Why ignore soulmate myths?
- How purpose affects marriage
- What traits build lasting love
Table of contents
first KEY POINT
Don’t rush into marriage until you’re certain you’re making the right choice for your future
Marriage is like a double-edged sword; it can be sweet, and it can be bitter, depending on what the persons involved make it to be. A successful marriage is a great source of joy and untold happiness. But a frustrating marriage, on the other hand, is the closest experience any two people can have to the horror of hell. Yes, it’s that serious. And that’s why you need to be extra careful when choosing a life partner.Far too many singles go into marriage blank. Many people don’t think about what they want their marriage to look like in the next 10, 20, 40, or 50 years. We have long-term goals for our careers, finances, and every other thing we deem important. But when it comes to marriage, the average single person just knows that they want a “happy home.” Ask them “How?” and they won’t have much to say. That’s terrible, but it’s about to change for you with this summary.Admittedly, the “in-love” feeling gets us on an emotional high. Some people get off this rollercoaster earlier than others, but research has shown that by the 24-month mark, you’d have come to the point where you aren’t entirely under the influence of your emotions. It’s at this point that you begin to see the seemingly hidden flaws in your partner, as well as other elements of your relationship that you easily overlooked in the first 24 months.
Every infatuated person believes their partner is the best human being in the world until they get off the emotional cliff.
It's important to take things slow and wait for the reactions in your brain to calm down before making a lifelong commitment. But it's even more effective if you can learn from an experienced counselor. That way, you save yourself a lot of time and emotional trauma. That's where this summary comes in. What you're about to read will:
• Equip you with the wisdom you need to decide what exactly you should want in a lifelong relationship.
• Show you traits to imbibe for a successful marriage.
• Reveal why soulmate is a myth, and show you why there's not just one person you can marry.
second KEY POINT
Stop looking out for the less important things
Marriage is a whole package; many things go into it, and all the things you may be looking at are quite important. There’s just a priority to it.Although this isn’t one of those religious teachings that tell you to completely forget about sexual appeal, it’s important to marry someone you’re sexually attracted to. But don’t settle for a man or woman that you can’t imagine seeing their nakedness — sexual attraction mustn’t be number one on your priority list.The reason is simple: sexual chemistry may sustain a relationship, but it’s not enough to take you through the lifelong commitment that marriage requires.
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first KEY POINT
The concept of a soul mate is a myth
second KEY POINT
You need to actively search for a life partner
third KEY POINT
Discuss marriage styles with your partner before tying the knot
fourth KEY POINT
Look beyond the present when choosing a partner
fifth KEY POINT
Conclusion
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Frequently asked questions
What is The Sacred Search: What If It’s Not about Who You Marry But Why? about?
The Sacred Search, authored by John W. Gray III, explores the deeper motivations behind marriage and relationships. Instead of focusing solely on who to marry, it invites readers to reflect on why they seek companionship, emphasizing personal growth and understanding in the journey of love.
What are the key takeaways from The Sacred Search: What If It’s Not about Who You Marry But Why?
Key takeaways from The Sacred Search include the importance of self-awareness, understanding your own needs and reasons for marrying, and prioritizing personal compatibility over societal pressures. Gray encourages readers to redefine love and partnership based on inner fulfillment and shared values.
Is The Sacred Search: What If It’s Not about Who You Marry But Why? worth reading?
Absolutely, The Sacred Search is worth reading for anyone interested in relationships and personal development. John W. Gray III's insights provide profound perspectives that can enhance your understanding of love and help you make more intentional choices in your relationships.
How many pages is The Sacred Search: What If It’s Not about Who You Marry But Why? and when was it published?
The Sacred Search spans 224 pages and was published on April 7, 2015. This engaging read is perfect for those looking to explore the motives behind their relationships.
How does The Sacred Search: What If It’s Not about Who You Marry But Why? redefine relationships?
The Sacred Search redefines relationships by encouraging readers to consider their inner desires and motivations rather than external expectations. John W. Gray III emphasizes the significance of personal growth and mutual compatibility as foundational elements in forming meaningful connections.