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The Mountain Is You

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You’ll learn

  • To flatten the speed bumps on your way to a dream
  • About self-sabotaging tricks
  • What your emotions can teach you
  • How to say goodbye to your past traumas
  • Building a new self

first KEY POINT

Your life is a mountain ridge, not a plain

Have you ever climbed a mountain? When you reach the top, the voice in your head saying, “You can’t do this!” is finally silent because you proved it wrong. But you wouldn’t know it if you stayed at the foot, terrified of taking the first step.These mountains are your progress in work, life, or relationships. In a way, you are that mountain because you always hike your own psychological trails and explore its beauty and unknown treasures. Sometimes you have to jump over a fallen tree in your path; that can be a traumatic memory or a complex. You can be your biggest obstacle or tremendous force; nothing feels better than conquering yourself.

Your victories in the external world are the peaks you scaled inside of you.

Ascension always includes tripping and falling. However, people often confuse failing with being a failure. They believe mistakes make them imperfect or unworthy. Nonetheless, perceiving errors as lessons can enrich your experience, temper your character, and deepen your knowledge.

Keeping the myth of perfection means never rising above your head.

Whatever your mountain is, you must drop your excessive demands, imposed values, and false views while at its foot. For example, you must determine why you need to lose weight. Is it because you love your body and want to care for it, or because someone said you look unattractive?Be honest with yourself about why you need to hit that peak. The ascension breaks those following the wrong goals; only genuine desires can motivate and push you further.Finally, remember that the way up is always hard, but the only means to grow.Therefore, prepare to discover and climb your mountain, even if your fears create traps on your way to the top.

second KEY POINT

Your progress relies on your readiness to change

People say you are your best friend and worst enemy. When it comes to career, finances, or personal growth, your mind can promote you to victory or block your every effort; you may think that you are moving forward while, in reality, you are running in a hamster wheel.Self-sabotage is a principal coping technique your mind uses to react to reality; it comes from various mental patterns:• Fears — Usually, the most basic worries hide something critical. For example, you may sabotage your career advancement because you fear you won’t manage the workload. However, on a deeper level, you may be terrified that professional success will make you sacrifice a connection with your family.
• Negative and limiting beliefs — The preconceptions you grew up with will create obstacles because what you want is “dangerous” or “bad.” For example, you will struggle to grow financially if your parents think “money spoils people.”
• The unknown — Changes make you leave your comfort zone and adopt new habits or behaviors. Growth brings new things to life, so you may sabotage your success because you fear it will shatter your life order or deprive you of things you are used to.The common practice is to live on a roller-coaster: you laugh and smile when you go up and feel stressed or depressed on the way down. Such an unstable lifestyle scales your emotions from one extreme to another, making you restless.

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first KEY POINT

Self-sabotage starts with the autopilot mode of life

second KEY POINT

Navigate your life by your emotions

third KEY POINT

Letting go allows people to heal and move forward

fourth KEY POINT

Traumas are the cracks in your future’s foundation

fifth KEY POINT

Enhancing life starts with improving yourself

sixth KEY POINT

Conclusion

About the author

Brianna Wiest is a best-selling author whose books have sold over a million copies worldwide in more than 20 languages.

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Frequently asked questions

What is The Mountain Is You: Transforming Self-Sabotage into Self-Mastery about?

The Mountain Is You: Transforming Self-Sabotage into Self-Mastery by Brianna Wiest focuses on understanding and overcoming self-sabotaging behaviors. The book explores how our internal struggles often hold us back from reaching our true potential, providing insights on transforming these challenges into catalysts for personal growth.

What are the key takeaways from The Mountain Is You: Transforming Self-Sabotage into Self-Mastery?

Key takeaways from The Mountain Is You include recognizing self-sabotage as a barrier to success and understanding the importance of self-awareness. Wiest encourages readers to embrace their struggles, highlighting that personal transformation stems from confronting and overcoming inner conflicts.

Is The Mountain Is You: Transforming Self-Sabotage into Self-Mastery worth reading?

Yes, The Mountain Is You is worth reading for anyone seeking self-improvement and personal mastery. Brianna Wiest's approachable writing and practical advice offer valuable tools for those looking to break free from negative patterns and achieve greater fulfillment.

How many pages is The Mountain Is You: Transforming Self-Sabotage into Self-Mastery and when was it published?

The Mountain Is You has approximately 200 pages and was published in 2020. This makes it a concise read for those looking to delve into self-discovery and personal development.

Who is the author of The Mountain Is You: Transforming Self-Sabotage into Self-Mastery?

The author of The Mountain Is You is Brianna Wiest, a prominent writer known for her insights on self-development and emotional well-being. Her work combines personal experience with psychological concepts to guide readers towards mastering their inner challenges.