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The Art of Asking

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  • The surprising benefits of asking and accepting help
  • How a TED talk can alter the course of millions
  • Creative ways to express yourself and achieve success
  • The mystery behind a million-dollar Kickstarter journey
  • Impact and controversy over crowdfunding

first KEY POINT

Amanda Palmer’s TED talk won a lot of hearts

Amanda Palmer was living the musical dream. Signed to a major label, she was creating music and loving every second. However, success soured when unresolvable issues arose with the record label, and she was forced to endure a court battle to end the contract prematurely. Not wanting to give up on music but not having the funds to begin herself, she decided to raise money from her fans through Kickstarter. She would use any funds she raised to record and produce her next album herself.Her fans were thrilled at the prospect of a new album, and she more than reached the amount required to create the album. Despite that, she was judged by those in the industry for asking for money from her fans.Off the back of this success, she was invited to talk at a TED conference in 2012, highlighting the ups and downs of the music industry and how to overcome them. She wasn’t a professional speaker, so she was understandably nervous.She prepared her talk for over a month in the basement of a rented house. She ran the talk script past her family and friends and then flew to Long Beach, California to deliver it. Despite her nerves, she received a standing ovation. She realized that perhaps asking for help isn’t the taboo thing people seem to think.Following the speech, the TED coach hugged her and thanked her for making her realize that it was okay to ask. Two days later, her talk was posted to YouTube and the TED site, receiving 100,000 views within a day. It increased to a million and then eight million a year later.

The TED talk that Amanda Palmer gave in 2012 resonated with millions of people worldwide and impacted their lives positively.

For Amanda Palmer, it was the stories that came after the talk that astounded her. People would stop her in the street to share a moment. Like most stage performers, she had always been most passionate about sharing art and connecting with people, and the fact that people were now reaching out to her about something different, gave her a sense of joy.As you read on, you will learn more about Amanda Palmer’s life, discover how to get the best out of your own life, and help others do the same by never shying away from asking for help.

second KEY POINT

Never one to shy away from a challenge, Amanda Palmer began her career as a street performer

Amanda Palmer never wanted a real job when she was young. When people asked about her future career, she would simply lie and mention any impressive job that came to her mind: a doctor, lawyer, or veterinarian. The actual truth was that she wanted to be a Rock Star, but people tended to react with hilarity when she said it.To make her parents happy, she went to Wesleyan University, and after obtaining her degree, she flew back to Boston from Germany with no clue how to start a real life. She took a job as a barista, rented a rundown share house in Massachusetts, and found work as a street performing statue. Despite the unusual nature of the job, she found the creative element inspiring; she was able to connect with people, something she enjoyed.In her late teens and twenties Palmer worked several jobs but spent the most time working as a living statue. She would paint her face white, dress up in a bridal gown and stand on milk crates on a well-trafficked spot in front of the subway station. As people dropped money in a hat lying on the floor, she would bend and gaze lovingly as she silently handed each person a flower. On the first day, she made $38 in an hour, and she decided that as obscure as it was, perhaps she could make a real go of it.

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first KEY POINT

Amanda Palmer underwent struggles and challenges when her friend battled cancer

second KEY POINT

Connections with people as the statue bride weren’t enough, so Amanda Palmer started a band

third KEY POINT

No indie label wanted to sign the Dresden Dolls because they considered them a goth band

fourth KEY POINT

Amanda Palmer was an expert at asking, yet she found it hard to accept help from her husband

fifth KEY POINT

The crowdfunding success of her album caused an uproar

sixth KEY POINT

Conclusion

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Amanda Palmer is an accomplished musician and artist. Her innovative use of crowdfunding has sparked conversations about the future of art and the importance of community support.

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Frequently asked questions

What is The Art of Asking: How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Let People Help about?

The Art of Asking, written by Amanda Palmer, explores the concept of vulnerability and the importance of asking for help. Through personal anecdotes and examples from her life as a musician, Palmer emphasizes how overcoming the fear of asking can lead to stronger connections and community support.

What are the key takeaways from The Art of Asking: How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Let People Help?

Key takeaways from The Art of Asking include embracing vulnerability, understanding the power of asking for help, and building a network of support. Palmer illustrates how meaningful relationships can stem from openness and sharing one's needs with others.

Is The Art of Asking: How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Let People Help worth reading?

Yes, The Art of Asking is worth reading for anyone looking to improve their communication skills and foster deeper relationships. Amanda Palmer's insights on creativity, connection, and community provide valuable lessons for both personal and professional growth.

How many pages is The Art of Asking: How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Let People Help and when was it published?

The Art of Asking has approximately 208 pages and was published on November 11, 2014. This length makes it a quick yet impactful read.

Who is the author of The Art of Asking: How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Let People Help?

The Art of Asking is authored by Amanda Palmer, a musician and performer known for her thought-provoking ideas on art, relationships, and community engagement. Her unique perspective enriches the narrative and resonates with readers.