russia has launched a full-scale war in Ukraine. Donate to support Ukraine and protect the world’s peace.

Relationship Goals

summary ofRelationship GoalsBook by Michael Todd

16 min
00:00
/
00:00
Get full summary

You’ll learn

  • Three I's of productive singlehood
  • What questions help you start dating
  • Why marriage resembles God's care for the church
  • How sex affects spiritual growth
  • When you should have children

first KEY POINT

Follow the Bible for a perfect relationship

Growing up, most people think of relationships as nothing more than sex and casual talk. The way many people think about relationships is broken, and the high rate of divorce and breakups does not help matters in the slightest. Compared to decades ago, not as many people go into marriage considering it to be the only relationship they’ll ever have. This is as prevalent inside the church as outside. It is no wonder why many people think building a healthy relationship cannot be achieved.In reality, it is entirely possible. You just need to know who to listen to and look up to. God, our creator, is the One. He has spoken His word through the Bible; all you need to do is listen. It’s time to start uncovering false notions by pitting God’s words against the challenges of life and using the truth to figure out how to live with people.

Applying biblical principles will give renewed hope for your relationship.

No matter what your current status is, you can transform your relationships. Allowing the Bible to guide you will convert your heart to the right place, minimize your pain, and allow you to reap the benefits of a healthy relationship.This summary will show you how to build effective connections to give you the best shot at a union that goes the distance.

second KEY POINT

Know where you’re going and why

When we want to get to know a new area, go on vacation, or travel, we find out the address of points A and B of our journey thanks to maps. If we have a long way ahead, the number of points and their location may change, and that's normal. But we very rarely go into the unknown.We should treat the search for a partner according to a similar principle. Although it is impossible to have your whole life figured out from the onset, when it comes to relationships, you need to know your aim before venturing into one.Even if you have targets or markers for success in your relationship, you need to reexamine them to ensure they are the right ones. If you don't, another person may start deciding for you, and it’s akin to a stranger leading you in an unknown direction.How do you know if your goals are the right ones for you?• Your relationship goals must contribute to the life you are currently living.
• Whatever relationship goals you set must create meaning in your life.

book cover

Continue reading with Headway app

Continue reading

Full summary is waiting for you in the app

first KEY POINT

Too many people are eager to get out of singlehood

second KEY POINT

Dating is a time to take responsibility

third KEY POINT

God will help you navigate relationships

fourth KEY POINT

Having sex is never about only sex itself

fifth KEY POINT

God gives strength to a couple with children

sixth KEY POINT

When a challenge knocks on your door

seventh KEY POINT

Conclusion

About the author

Michael Todd is a pastor of the Transformation Church in Oklahoma. Together with his wife, Natalie, they work with local communities. His book about relationships became a New York Times bestseller.

Join 55+ million learners worldwide

172K 5 reviews on App Store and Google Play

Get started

Frequently asked questions

What is Relationship Goals: How to Win at Dating, Marriage, and Sex about?

Relationship Goals: How to Win at Dating, Marriage, and Sex by Michael Todd is a comprehensive guide covering the essential principles for thriving in romantic relationships. The book focuses on developing emotional intimacy, clear communication, and nurturing lasting connections.

What are the key takeaways from Relationship Goals: How to Win at Dating, Marriage, and Sex?

Key takeaways include the importance of setting healthy boundaries, understanding your partner's love language, and the significance of vulnerability in fostering deeper connections. Todd emphasizes actionable strategies for navigating the complexities of love, marriage, and intimacy.

Is Relationship Goals: How to Win at Dating, Marriage, and Sex worth reading?

Yes, this book is highly recommended for anyone seeking to improve their relationship skills or understand the dynamics of love more deeply. Todd's relatable insights and practical advice resonate well with readers looking for real-world application to their dating and marriage experiences.

How many pages is Relationship Goals: How to Win at Dating, Marriage, and Sex and when was it published?

Relationship Goals: How to Win at Dating, Marriage, and Sex is 224 pages long and was published on April 7, 2020. This approachable length makes it an easy read for those looking to enhance their understanding of relationships without a hefty time commitment.

What insights does Michael Todd offer in Relationship Goals: How to Win at Dating, Marriage, and Sex?

Michael Todd offers insights on building a solid foundation founded on trust and respect, alongside actionable advice for dealing with conflict and maintaining passion over time. His focus on real-life applications and examples provides valuable guidance for readers at various stages of their relationships.