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Get Out of Your Head

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You’ll learn

  • The impact of emotions on our thoughts
  • To capture and fight negative thoughts
  • Ways to be open to connections
  • Responsibility and humility
  • How to accept your vulnerability

first KEY POINT

Spiraling down our rabbit hole

The mind is one of those things that we overlook until we think about it. It is similar to breathing or blinking; we usually don't notice how our subconscious influences us until we try to understand it. The mind creates thought patterns that we circulate within us. Unfortunately, its fascinating neurotransmissions lead us toward toxicity. After all, life is tough. Sometimes, can’t help but sink into a marsh of negativity.Some people find closure in religion or mindfulness. On the other hand, very few share the pleasure of enlightenment. Most of us are paralyzed by fear. Those who do not seek outside help often drown in cynicism and apathy. With every step into this swamp, they take their failures for granted, overlooking their initial choice. Eventually, negativity results from their decision, often disguised as inertia.

Spirituality and science often walk on the same path.

Choice can be a powerful tool, as our feelings are potent manipulators. We embrace self-deprecation when we don't recognize negative thoughts. As a result, our goals, dreams, and relationships follow a depressing spiral. Jennie Allen used to be overtly confident in her faith. However, after an 18-month faith paralysis, she lost her firmness. Allen dived into the Scriptures to find the root of her toxic spiraling; luckily, she grew resistant to her negative thoughts. Having found help from her family, friends, and faith, Allen decided to provide the same support for other people in crisis. Today, she appeals to various beliefs using evidence from religion and science.

second KEY POINT

The turn of the cog that is our mind

Our thoughts shape us subconsciously; even if fleeting and meaningless, the weight of our thoughts can be grand. However, what is genuinely nonsensical is that every random thought influences our routines and relationships.We all suffer from the allure of rummaging for our phones first thing in the morning. This lousy habit plagues the entire generation and has many far-reaching consequences. Following celebrities or even former classmates and getting updates when they succeed provides us with a distorted view of their reality, clouding our mood and self-perception. Social media creates groundless doubts often reflected in low self-esteem, suspicions, and a lack of trust toward the closest people that can undermine life plans. As a result, we stumble into conflicts that may not have needed to happen at all.

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first KEY POINT

Keep your thoughts from harming yourself

second KEY POINT

Close your eyes and see things as they are

third KEY POINT

Taking the risk of showing up

fourth KEY POINT

Find pleasure in humility

fifth KEY POINT

The gratitude of being a servant

sixth KEY POINT

Conclusion

About the author

Jennie Allen is a beloved author on self-help and the founder of the Christian community for women IF: Gathering. She brings up her and other women's experiences to discuss psychological wellbeing in her books.

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Frequently asked questions

What is Get Out of Your Head: Stopping the Spiral of Toxic Thoughts about?

Get Out of Your Head: Stopping the Spiral of Toxic Thoughts, authored by Dr. Jennell E. Smith, addresses strategies to help individuals overcome negative thinking patterns. The book offers insights into cognitive behavioral techniques and mindfulness, aiming to empower readers to reclaim control over their thoughts.

Is Get Out of Your Head: Stopping the Spiral of Toxic Thoughts worth reading?

Yes, Get Out of Your Head is definitely worth reading for anyone struggling with anxiety or self-doubt. The practical tools and relatable anecdotes can inspire hope and guide readers toward a healthier mindset.

How many pages is Get Out of Your Head: Stopping the Spiral of Toxic Thoughts and when was it published?

Get Out of Your Head consists of 240 pages and was published on February 22, 2022. This length makes it a manageable read for anyone looking to boost their mental health quickly.

What are the key takeaways from Get Out of Your Head: Stopping the Spiral of Toxic Thoughts?

Key takeaways include understanding how thoughts influence feelings and behaviors, the value of practicing mindfulness, and the importance of developing self-compassion. Dr. Smith emphasizes actionable strategies to help break free from toxic thought cycles.

Who is the author of Get Out of Your Head: Stopping the Spiral of Toxic Thoughts?

The author of Get Out of Your Head is Dr. Jennell E. Smith, a licensed professional counselor and mental health expert. Her experience in therapy provides a strong foundation for the book's practical advice and insights.