Self-growth
Business & Career
Success
Communication
Healing
Relationships
Psychology
HappinessYou’ll learn
- How to stop losing yourself
- The value of your time
- The best time to start making a change
- How to build a well-balanced relationship
Table of contents
first KEY POINT
There is only so much you can do on your own you need a foolproof strategy
Imagine this scenario: you have three children who practice basketball, ballet, and baseball today at 3 p.m., 3:45 p.m., and 4 p.m., respectively. You will have to pick them up from school first and feed them. Then, you rush them to their different activities but still have to make dinner. You’re in the grocery store figuring out what to buy, and your husband texts reminding you to send some insurance documents to his email. At this stage, you'll likely feel like screaming off the rooftop in frustration. You do so much for your family; everyone should know this. But, unfortunately, so many times, you're the one who gets to do everything, from getting your children ready for school to taking the trash out. And this gets worse as your family grows. The problem is that most of the things you do are invisible. Hence, it becomes necessary to make your family, or whoever applies, see all your sacrifices. You could start by listing everything you do, including all the tiny details, every single one.
If you don't make these acts visible, your family will take all the good things you do for granted.
The best way to balance your life, define yourself, and get a grip on something is to understand the game of fair play. Fair play may sound very frivolous and a seemingly vague answer to the problem of imbalance in parental roles. However, it will help you maintain an efficient home and reduce the burden of picking up after everyone else.
second KEY POINT
Every time you take on more than you can handle, you lose a part of yourself
You probably feel like a superhero when you do everything around the house. Still, these activities can cost you a lot.
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first KEY POINT
You and your partner get the same 24 hours each day; make sure your time counts
second KEY POINT
There’s no better time to make a change than right here and right now
third KEY POINT
Fair play depends on you, your partner, and your common goal — happiness
fourth KEY POINT
Your partner is your ally; you should always have each other's backs
fifth KEY POINT
Your progress depends on your willingness to own up to your mistakes
sixth KEY POINT
Conclusion
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Frequently asked questions
What is Fair Play: A Game-Changing Solution for When You Have Too Much to Do about?
Fair Play: A Game-Changing Solution for When You Have Too Much to Do, authored by Eve Rodsky, revolves around creating a more equitable division of responsibilities in relationships. Rodsky offers practical frameworks that promote balance and open communication, helping couples manage their household duties and personal lives more effectively.
What are the key takeaways from Fair Play: A Game-Changing Solution for When You Have Too Much to Do?
Key takeaways from Fair Play include the importance of recognizing invisible labor in relationships and implementing a game-like system to fairly distribute tasks. This book empowers readers to rethink their partnerships by emphasizing collaboration, respectful communication, and ownership of responsibilities.
Is Fair Play: A Game-Changing Solution for When You Have Too Much to Do worth reading?
Yes, Fair Play is worth reading for anyone seeking a healthier balance in their personal and professional lives. Rodsky's insightful approach to managing tasks can transform relationships, making it a valuable resource for couples and families.
How many pages is Fair Play: A Game-Changing Solution for When You Have Too Much to Do and when was it published?
Fair Play spans 288 pages and was published on September 1, 2020. Rodsky's engaging writing style makes this book both informative and enjoyable.
How can Fair Play: A Game-Changing Solution for When You Have Too Much to Do help improve my daily life?
Fair Play can enhance your daily life by providing practical strategies to redistribute household responsibilities, reducing stress and conflict. By implementing these methods, you can foster a more collaborative environment that promotes mutual respect and shared goals.