Self-growth
Business & Career
Success
Communication
Healing
Relationships
Psychology
HappinessYou’ll learn
- How to stop losing yourself
- The value of your time
- The best time to start making a change
- How to build a well-balanced relationship
Table of contents
first KEY POINT
There is only so much you can do on your own you need a foolproof strategy
Imagine this scenario: you have three children who practice basketball, ballet, and baseball today at 3 p.m., 3:45 p.m., and 4 p.m., respectively. You will have to pick them up from school first and feed them. Then, you rush them to their different activities but still have to make dinner. You’re in the grocery store figuring out what to buy, and your husband texts reminding you to send some insurance documents to his email. At this stage, you'll likely feel like screaming off the rooftop in frustration. You do so much for your family; everyone should know this. But, unfortunately, so many times, you're the one who gets to do everything, from getting your children ready for school to taking the trash out. And this gets worse as your family grows. The problem is that most of the things you do are invisible. Hence, it becomes necessary to make your family, or whoever applies, see all your sacrifices. You could start by listing everything you do, including all the tiny details, every single one.
If you don't make these acts visible, your family will take all the good things you do for granted.
The best way to balance your life, define yourself, and get a grip on something is to understand the game of fair play. Fair play may sound very frivolous and a seemingly vague answer to the problem of imbalance in parental roles. However, it will help you maintain an efficient home and reduce the burden of picking up after everyone else.
second KEY POINT
Every time you take on more than you can handle, you lose a part of yourself
You probably feel like a superhero when you do everything around the house. Still, these activities can cost you a lot.
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first KEY POINT
You and your partner get the same 24 hours each day; make sure your time counts
second KEY POINT
There’s no better time to make a change than right here and right now
third KEY POINT
Fair play depends on you, your partner, and your common goal — happiness
fourth KEY POINT
Your partner is your ally; you should always have each other's backs
fifth KEY POINT
Your progress depends on your willingness to own up to your mistakes
sixth KEY POINT
Conclusion
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What is Fair Play: A Game-Changing Solution for When You Have Too Much to Do about?
'Fair Play: A Game-Changing Solution for When You Have Too Much to Do' by Eve Rodsky discusses the importance of equitable distribution of tasks in both personal and professional relationships. It offers a fresh perspective on balancing responsibilities, helping individuals implement a system that reduces overwhelm and encourages collaboration.
What are the key takeaways from Fair Play: A Game-Changing Solution for When You Have Too Much to Do?
Key takeaways from 'Fair Play' include strategies for redefining and sharing household duties, enhancing communication about expectations, and fostering a sense of fairness in relationships. The book emphasizes actionable steps to create a more satisfying and less stressful dynamic at home.
Is Fair Play: A Game-Changing Solution for When You Have Too Much to Do worth reading?
Yes, 'Fair Play' is highly regarded for its practical insights and relatable anecdotes, making it worth reading for anyone feeling burdened by domestic responsibilities. Eve Rodsky's approach resonates with many readers seeking a balanced, fair partnership.
How many pages is Fair Play: A Game-Changing Solution for When You Have Too Much to Do, and when was it published?
'Fair Play' is 368 pages long and was published on September 10, 2019. This comprehensive book is packed with insights into sharing life's responsibilities.
Who is the author of Fair Play: A Game-Changing Solution for When You Have Too Much to Do?
The author of 'Fair Play' is Eve Rodsky, a recognized author and thought leader who focuses on gender equality and family dynamics. Her work advocates for modern solutions to age-old challenges in the division of household labor.