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Dollars and Sex

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  • How economic principles shape sexual behaviors
  • Tips for better dating strategies
  • How market rules apply to finding love
  • What is the link between money and happiness in marriage

first KEY POINT

Technology has changed the way we date and mate

In the form of effective contraceptives, technological advanceshave stunned the cost–benefit analysis of sex. Millions of women and men think daily about having noncommittal sex because we now have the power to do so with little to no consequences. In the past, people had a fear of unwanted pregnancies and STDs to consider before having sex. But not anymore.

According to a 2010 report by Pew Research, about 44% of young adults see marriage as an obsolete institution.

Let’s talk about birth control technology. Since women can control their fertility, most have concluded that the benefits of premarital sex outweigh the costs. It is now safer to have sex with less risk of pregnancy. Ages ago, a woman knew that if she had an illegitimate child, her chances of marrying a man with a good income became very slim. But even with advances in contraceptive technology, the number of unwanted pregnancies keeps increasing. But this doesn’t mean sex tech is not important; it simply means that it spurred social change leading to a rise in promiscuity.Does promiscuity have any benefits? Sex makes people happy, so you would think people with more sexual partners would be happier. But that’s far from accurate. Research shows the more sexual partners you have, the less happy you will be. The economic approach to explaining human sexuality enables us to understand why we went through the liberalization of sexual values in the twentieth century and how the ever–widening gaps in incomes between the poor and the rich have led to increasing unintended pregnancies in impoverished communities. The remaining chapters of this summary are all about exploring these points.

second KEY POINT

College students have different sexual experiences from their age mates who don’t attend school

Contrary to common belief, university students have less sex on average than their counterparts who aren’t studying. Let’s look at the fate of most students on campus. On Thursday nights, students are binge drinking at a bar off–campus. Most women will go to this bar just to have a good time with their friends, while others go there and use their drunken state to hook up with any willing guy. Only a few go there to enjoy male attention while seeking a relationship, but this proves impossible since most men won’t want to be with a woman who doesn’t give up the cookie within a few hours after they meet.Another popular misconception is that men like sex more than women. The truth is that men prefer having several sexual partners; meanwhile, women prefer being assured that sex is not a one–off experience. In one study, researchers asked people how many sexual partners they would like to have over the next two years. Women on average preferred just one partner, while men wanted eight sexual partners on average.

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first KEY POINT

The filters on online dating sites make it easier to find love, and many potential partners are discarded because of flimsy features

second KEY POINT

Your value on the market limits who you are with when your market closes

third KEY POINT

The meanings we give to marriage varies across religious and geographical divisions

fourth KEY POINT

The happiest marriages are those in which husbands and wives are similar to each other

fifth KEY POINT

People are starting relationships at different stages of their lives, and they are living in a way that differs from the past

sixth KEY POINT

Conclusion

About the author

Marina Adshade, Ph.D., is an economist known for her work on the intersection of economics and human sexuality.

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'Dollars and Sex: How Economics Influences Sex and Love' by Jeremy Josse explores the interplay between economic factors and romantic relationships. It delves into how money impacts desire, attraction, and the dynamics of love, presenting a unique lens on human connections.

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